A New Parenting Book Shows Why Traditional Strategies Fall Short — And Gives Parents a Simple Way to Help Kids Calm Their Nervous Systems

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A New Parenting Book Shows Why Traditional Strategies Fall Short — And Gives Parents a Simple Way to Help Kids Calm Their Nervous Systems

A new book, “The Dysregulated Kid: The Parenting Playbook for Helping Your Child Find Calm in a Chaotic World,” offers a framework for addressing childhood behavioral and emotional challenges by targeting nervous system regulation. Written by children’s mental health expert Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, the book will be published by Page Two Books and released September 22, 2026.

Regulation-First Parenting

Rather than focusing on behavior management after it appears, the book centers on recognizing when the nervous system is overwhelmed and helping it reset. Dr. Roseann’s “Regulation First Parenting” framework follows a progression: Regulate, Connect, Then guide behavior. She explains, “You can’t teach or discipline a dysregulated brain. Calm has to come first.” When a child’s nervous system is overwhelmed, the brain shifts into survival mode, making it difficult to access thinking, problem-solving, and emotional regulation. According to the approach, what appears as defiance is often a stress response.

Practical Tools and Techniques

The book introduces the CALMS Protocol, a step-by-step response during dysregulated moments, along with RESET to Regulate—a process for parents to calm themselves first. Additional tools include the Love Pause, a quick reset before reacting, and 10-Minute Resets, short daily practices supporting regulation over time. Dr. Roseann has helped thousands of families through her clinical work and her top-ranked Dysregulated Kids podcast, which has more than 2 million downloads worldwide. She notes that many families arrive at traditional parenting strategies—behavior charts, consequences, and therapy—only to find the same patterns return, suggesting the core issue is nervous system function rather than behavior itself.

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